Once a month at Friday morning meeting, a Rancher is asked to share what Spring Lake Ranch means to them. On Friday, February 27, one of our residents shared a wonderful speech about kindness (and ice cream), available to read below:
Spring Lake Ranch invites its residents and PCs alike to experiment with how kind they can become, and thereby doing so to become our best selves.
Here, not only do we have the privilege to assume that people are being invited to live their best lives, but that we in community would encourage them, and then each other, to do so. Spring Lake Ranch is a monumental achievement of human hope and gratitude. It has saved lives, changed lives, and exists in harmony with the goals of its community.
So on to the necessary anecdote. I’ve been considering a lot of possible choices, but today I will tell a story about Kelly’s. If you haven’t been to Kelly’s before, I encourage you to go one day (actually though please try very hard to).
I arrived at the Ranch in May 2024, and was just starting out here when it was announced in the Main House that it had become in equivalent of “Kelly’s season.” I was told by the bunch of Ranchers who were there at time that Kelly’s was an “ice cream restaurant”, so to speak?
When we all bundeled into the van to go, the crowd was ecstatic.
Someone put on some songs, and I realized in that moment, no matter how green I was to the Ranch, that I had not been around a group of people my own age who seemed so excited to do literally anything more than this group about to go to Kelly’s. “It’s just ice cream,” I thought, and please understand that I freaking love ice cream.
When we got to Kelly’s, it was, as I’m sure many people could understand, a rite of passage. They had all the classic fried foods in tandem with soft serve and sprinkles: fries, mozz sticks, etc. Everyone got their order, and . . . sat down at the same table. There was some cliquey dynamics, as there are anywhere, but when I sat down with the group of my peers at the Kelly’s picnic table, I was welcomed. By my own standards, I was in astonishment. There was no shade, no nasty looks or tones of voice, and maybe just because it was summer, I thought. I was wrong. Spring Lake Ranch harbors kindness as a fundamental human right. There is no animositiy or aggression, bullying or unfairness. The people here understand that there is a condition to belonging at Spring Lake Ranch: be kind, and mean it, and if you can’t then be quiet.
I want to ask you: have you ever been in a similar situation as extreme as the one I’ve described so far, anywhere in your life? Even if you have, or even if you haven’t, I want to close by saying that I encourage you to appreciate it here. Take the day to appreciate this place, the snow on the ground, the spring to come with lilacs in bloom, your friends and peers, and everyone here who wants to make you feel safe and accepted. We may sometimes feel as though we have troubles that are difficult to make people understand. But here, that doesn’t matter, because the only thing asked of us is to be ourselves. I hope to see you at Kelly’s.